Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Relation ship BUG- (Elephant Vs Ant)

     We have always heard that Elephants are a huge and mighty animal, very well known for its strength and courage. we have also heard the saying Elephant has greater fear over ant!
      This is quite a contradicting fact...Lets face the reality, an elephant has a mighty power and strength which  enables other animals to fear for elephant.But how can an ant be a threatening factor?
       Lets deal with this with an different approach. As we mostly agree that women care for small petty issues while men try to ignore that. At the same time men care for bigger issues while women mostly take them lightly.When we do an in-depth analysis for instance: when women focus on the minor aspects and men on the broader aspects both tend to have a mismatch or difference of opinion.

      Example.1:For instance lets say a women is having a issue on something small and the guy tends not to give much of an importance for the same. Women strives to solve the problem seeking the guys attention and help! When nothing seems to solve the issue, the problem seeks to catch attention of men, by that time the issue which started in a basic level has already reached an whole new level.

      Example 2:For instance lets consider the reverse of example 1 where the guy is having a major issue which is quite concerning, and women tends to take it lightly,the guy seeks attention and help from the women, which doesn't seem to quite workout.Eventually the problem seems to have grown to an incurable situation.

Now lets relate he two examples with our elephant friend:

   when an ant is out hunting for food, its always on the lookout for the Small predators like insect grasshopper etc But never fears the large animals like tiger, lion, etc The reason behind why the ant does not fear large animals is simple: large animals do not consider ant in their food chain, but there is high chance of them to be stamped to death by the weight of large animals.

  Now when elephant is out hunting for its food, it does not fear any large animal as it has got enough strength to fight over them. But the common fear of elephant is an ANT, when an ant gets into elephants' ear it makes elephant loose control and become restless. While elephant is on look out for large animal ignoring the face and ant is already crawling to its ears, elephant is ignorant of small things.

The same applies to any relationship: a girl cannot be self confident that large problem are out of their scope nor the men cannot ignore the fact small issues cost a lot if not taken care of. Hence it is not a myth men don't care for petty issues or vice versa, It is the duty of both men and women to compliment each others concern or problems and solving it at the earliest other than leaving it to spread like a forest fire, This way compartmentalization of each other yields a healthy relationship.


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